4. OVERWHELM WITH YOUR PROBLEMS
Although it is tempting, try not to talk of your self-esteem problems at all hours or your traumas, your family secrets. In the beginning of the relationship you must focus on issues and topics of conversation that are pleasant for both and help them to know and feel complicit. The rest slowly day by day you can share your problems. First partners need to know and trust each other and then share the problems.
5. TELL ALL YOUR PAST
Yes, for two people to fall in love should really know and take all those social masks we wear at the beginning of a relationship to please the other. But that is a process that takes time and that should flow naturally. Do not tell your partner your whole past the first hurdle. You can overwhelm you with too much information and give the feeling that you hold painful wounds and need a therapist to rescue you from a life full of trouble.
6. PUT SEX FIRST
This tip is especially for men. Of course your new partner attracts you and moreover she excites a lot. Great, but do not make the mistake of using sex as a way to receive love or to show that you are more interested in just physical love. You should not make out if your partner is not comfortable with you and wants you to first get emotionally attached to her. So, don’t rush and force her as this is the top mistakes to avoid at the start of a relationship for guys.
7. SHOW TOO ATTACHED TO MONEY
This tip is especially for women. In the beginning of relationship, never stress your guy for expensive gifts. He’ll think that you’re using him to pay your bills and your whims. This is the time where you can make your guy trust you that you like him and you are not with him just for money. Try to give the image of an economically independent person who knows how to enjoy life with or without money, and you earn their respect.