Relationships, by definition, include two or more people. That means there always has to be a level of give and take on everyone’s part, because it’s impossible to always get your way when someone else is concerned. Being able to compromise is an essential part of a healthy relationship, but a lot of the time, you don’t realize you’re the one that’s been doing all the compromising. While that kind situation may work for a little while, you deserve to get just as much out of a relationship as you put in.
1. YOU ALWAYS INITIATE CONTACT.
Every conversation you have happens because you texted or called them. You actually wonder sometimes if you’d ever hear from them at all if you weren’t the one making all the effort.
2. YOU’RE ALWAYS THE ONE MAKING PLANS.
They never seem interested in planning anything with you. Unless you do all the work that is. They’ll show up, but they’ll never take the initiative to ask you to hang out.