3. YOU ONLY SEE EACH OTHER CASUALLY.
Always go around to each other’s houses as a last minute kind of thang? This is a sure-fire sign that you maybe haven’t connected on a deeper level. If you’re purely in lust, you’re happy with casual hookups because your sexual attraction is on fire. But, maybe you’ve recently realized that you’re not happy with this. Maybe you want more.
4. SEX IS THE PRIMARY FOCUS.
When you do see each other, which isn’t too often, your relationship seems to revolve around sex, plain and simple. There’s not much else going on.
5. YOU’VE NEVER BEEN ON A PROPER DATE.
Perhaps you haven’t even been on a wine-and-dine kind of date with this guy because your relationship is based on hookups. If he hasn’t even asked you out, this could be a sign that he’s just in lust with you. After all, if he really wanted to pursue the relationship and see it progress to the next level, he would be constantly bombarding you with requests to go out with him. Think about it.