6. YOU DON’T REALLY TALK UNLESS IT’S TO ARRANGE A HOOKUP.
Any communication that you have when you’re not seeing each other is limited; it usually just involves making last-minute arrangements to see each other (and hook up). Maybe you’ve already tried to make other conversation because you’ve caught feelings but he’s not really feeling it or reciprocating. A lot of your texts go unanswered and he’s kind of difficult to pin down, which seriously sucks.
7. YOU’VE ONLY CONNECTED ON A PHYSICAL LEVEL.
If you really think about it, you’ve only ever connected on a physical level. You haven’t had any deep and meaningful conversations or know anything of substance about him. When you see each other and you do talk, it tends to be chitchat as a predecessor to getting down and dirty.
8. YOU’VE NEVER SPOKEN ABOUT YOUR INTENTIONS.
You can’t help but assume you’ve got feelings for him even though you’ve never actually identified what you guys are doing. For all you know, you could be on completely separate pages. You’re hoping it’s going to go somewhere, whereas he might see it as just a bit of fun. This is where you need to be careful AF. If you don’t both nail down what you’re doing early on, you could easily end up getting hurt.