There’s nothing like a guy who exclaims that he’s “just not ready for commitment” despite the fact that he’s pushing 30 (or well past it) and has literally no excuse for not having a real relationship. He acts like a total jerk, can’t seem to settle down to save his life, then BAM—suddenly, he’s married with kids with someone else. What changed?
1. THE DATING SCENE STARTED TO LOOK CRAPPY FOR HIM.
True story, a leading study on men and commitment showed that most men start looking for marriage when they start to feel out of place in the dating scene. If he feels “too old” to continue at local singles bars, chances are he’s going to start looking to lock someone down.
2. HE FINALLY HAS A STABLE INCOME/CAREER.
Believe it or not, guys feel an insane amount of pressure when it comes to being able to provide for women. Many guys worry about being “good enough” but won’t actually commit until they’re seriously stable in their ways. That being said, finance is also one of the biggest excuses guys make when it comes to avoiding commitment, so it’s up to you to use your BS detector.