6. IF HE’S BEEN MARRIED OR IN A COMMITTED RELATIONSHIP BEFORE, IT COULD BE THAT HE MISSES THE BENEFITS OF COMMITMENT.
True story—a larger percentage of divorced women become commitment-phobic than divorced men do. The reason why is because men tend to gain a much higher quality of life in a marriage than women do. Women often end up doing most of the housework, child-rearing, and emotional labor… and men do end up missing those benefits after having had a taste of them.
7. HE’S DONE SOWING THEIR WILD OATS.
It’s insane how many guys will see being a bachelor as a rite of passage. If a player is done screwing around, then guess what? It’s possible that he could have actually become interested in a committed relationship. (Now, whether or not you’re willing to date someone who would use girls and throw them away in the past is totally up to you. Personally, I wouldn’t.)
8. HE’S BEGINNING TO REALIZE THAT HE’S LOSING HIS GOOD LOOKS.
You’d be surprised at how many guys become way more receptive to committing to a girl once they gain weight, lose hair, and get wrinkles. Sad, shallow, but true. Guys end up wanting a girl when they no longer are able to get the casual sex they want.