Great relationships are founded on good communication, but that doesn’t mean that you can say anything and everything that pops into your head. There are certain things that are better left unsaid. Here are some things that you should never say to your boyfriend, because you love him and you’re not going to be that girl.
1. “SHUT UP.”
You should never tell anyone to shut up, really. But especially not your boyfriend. Healthy relationships should be respectful and telling someone to “shut up” is the ultimate sign of disrespect. Those two words speak a thousand different – and hurtful – messages. They say: “I don’t want to hear you. I don’t care what you have to say”.
2. “YOU REMIND ME OF MY EX.”
You shouldn’t be talking about your ex all that much, unless it’s to share your history and get closer to your current partner, and comparing the two men is a big no-no. It’s uncomfortable for your current boyfriend, and it’ll also keep you stuck in the past. Everyone is different, that’s a fact. Let your old relationship go and focus on the new one.