3. YOU CAN’T ASK HIM.
You want to ask him who that woman on his Facebook timeline is or why he hasn’t mentioned that he’s flying to Boston for work—you had to see it on Twitter—but you can’t. You know that you don’t know each other well enough to go there. If this has been going on for a while, it’s clear that he’ll never let you into his life completely.
4. HE MOVES IN AND OUT.
You might talk every day for a week and then not hear from him for two weeks, and that’s totally normal with him. Really? It’s not normal behavior for a guy who wants to date you.
5. HE LOWERS YOUR EXPECTATIONS.
He doesn’t need to tell you where he was on the weekend or why he didn’t call. He makes it clear that you’re getting to know each other so things are light and fun. He’s really hoping you’ll get the hint and not try to expect anything from him. Sounds like your casual dating setup is a little too convenient for this guy.