We like to think that we make logical, well-informed behavioral decisions most of the time, but sometimes our fears get the best of us and we go in the wrong direction. One way this plays out is in sabotaging everything good in our lives, and our relationships are not immune. Here are some signs you might be accidentally ruining a good thing.
1. YOU CHANGE YOUR MIND ABOUT HIM OVERNIGHT.
Feelings ebb and flow, but sometimes we trick ourselves into thinking that our romantic partners are actually monsters, despite nothing about their behavior demonstrating this.
2. YOU LOOK FOR PHYSICAL THINGS YOU DON’T LIKE ABOUT HIM.
He’s cool, but suddenly you can’t deal his hands. Or his feet, or his hairline for that matter. Who does this guy think he is?