It’s obvious you’re interested, but is he? All you want to know if he wants to be your boyfriend. I hate to give you the bad news, but sometimes a guy just isn’t into you. He might want to be friends, but that’s it. I know you think you can change his mind, but while you’re busy doing that, you could be missing out on his hot friend who actually does want to date you. If you experience these signs, consider him a lost cause and move on.
1. IT’S ALWAYS GROUP TIME.
Have you tried to get him alone? It’s amazing that no matter hard you try, there’s always other people around. Since he’s not interested in you as a girlfriend, he just brings all his friends along. If he doesn’t want to hang out alone, he’s definitely not interested.
2. HE ONLY WANTS TO HOOK UP.
Maybe he actually does want to spend time alone with you, but only at 3 AM in the middle of the week. In case it’s not obvious already, he only sees you as a hookup. He has no intention of committing. Enjoy the sex until you find a better guy.
3. HE REFERS TO YOU AS HIS LITTLE SISTER.
It’s not unusual for male friends to think of their female friends as sisters. Unless he’s a pervert, he’s never going to want to date someone he considers his sister. This is a sure sign you’ve been friend zoned permanently. It might change in rare cases, but I wouldn’t count on it.
4. HE TELLS YOU POINT BLANK.
There’s no clearer sign that he’s never going to be your boyfriend than when he says it. If you keep pressing the issue, he’s going to just start avoiding you completely. Respect his wishes and don’t get obsessive.
5. HE TRIES TO HOOK YOU UP WITH HIS FRIENDS.
Just because he doesn’t want to be with you, it doesn’t mean he’s blind. Any great guy friend does what he can to find a good woman for his friends. Believe me, if a guy’s interested in you, he’s not going to play matchmaker. Try dating his friends. What do you really have to lose?
6. HE DOESN’T CARE IF YOU IGNORE HIM.
One popular way to get a guy to kill to be your boyfriend is to ignore him and make sure you’re always busy. If he doesn’t care if you’re ignoring him, then he’s not interested. He may not even think of you as a friend. Try it and if it doesn’t work, accept he’s not boyfriend material.
7. HE’S NOT JEALOUS WHEN YOU FLIRT WITH OTHER GUYS.
A guy might seem oblivious until you flirt with other guys in front of him. If he’s the least bit interested, he’ll get jealous. Trust me, you’ll notice. If it’s not meant to be, he won’t care. He might even encourage you or play wing man.