Your Relationship Should Energize You, Not Exhaust You

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4. YOU END CONVERSATIONS EARLY.

During a long chat via text with your boyfriend, you’re usually the one to end things with the excuse that you’re busy or going to bed. It’s just that you don’t feel the sparkle with your partner anymore and conversations have started to feel like chores.

5. YOU DREAD HEARING FROM HIM. 

When you’re doing your own thing, you see your boyfriend’s name pop up on your phone screen and feel dread. Uh-oh. That’s not a good sign. Possible reasons for this include being tired of your partner dumping all his drama on you, feeling sick of fighting all the time… you get the picture.

6. YOU SHUT UP A LOT. 

When something’s on your mind, you tend to ignore it instead of speak to your partner about it. The result is that you’re locking up your real self and feelings, which is exhausting. Ask yourself why you don’t feel comfortable to speak to your partner. Is it because you feel you can’t be yourself around him or because he blows up at any little issue, causing you to have to walk around on eggshells?

7. YOU’VE STOPPED TRYING ALTOGETHER. 

You used to have enthusiasm to do things in your relationship, like cook your boyfriend dinner or surprise him with a mini break, but he always criticizes your efforts so you’ve thrown in the towel. You’ve become jaded and that’s not a good look.

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